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Tuesday, July 16, 2013
AULAAD KE ACCHE NAAM RAKHNA--(AULAAD KE HUQOOQ)
Bismillahirrahmanirraheem
AULAAD KE ACCHE NAAM RAKHNA--(AULAAD KE HUQOOQ)
Bacche ke Is Duniya Me Aa Jaane Ke Baad Waalidain Ki Zimmedari Hai Ki Uska Accha Sa Naam Tazweed Kare,
Acche Naam Rakhne Se Muraad Aise Naam Jinme Abdiyat (Allah Ka Banda Hone) Ka Izhaar Ho,
Sayyedina Abdullah Bin Umar (ra) Riwayat Karte Hain Ki Nabi e Akram Sallalaho Alaihi wasallam ne Farmaya
"Tumhare Naamon Me se Allah Ko Sabse Zyada Mahboob Naam Abdullah Aur Abdurrahman Hai"
(Sahih Muslim 2932)
Nek Logon Ke Naamon Par Naam Rakhna, Jaise Ambiya (as), Sahaba E Kiram (ra), Aur Deegar Salaf Ke Naamon Me se Koi Naam Rakh Liya Jaaye..
Sayyedena Hz Anas (ra) Se Riwayat Hai Ki Nabi e Akram Sallalaho Alaihi wasallam Ne Farmaya
" Raat Mere Yahan Beta Paida Hua Aur Maine Uska Naam Apne baap Ibraaheem Ke Naam Par Rakha Hai"
(Sahih Muslim 2395)
HALAL WA HARAM KA SHA'OOR PAIDA KARNA:
Sha'oor Aa Jaane Ke Baad sabse Pahle Bacche Ko Halal Aur Haram Ke Ahkaam Sikhaane Chahiye,
Sayyedena Abdullah Bin Abbas (ra) Ka Farmaan Hai
" Allah Ki Itaat Karo Aur Uski Nafarmaani Se Bacho, Aur Jin Cheezon Ka Huqm Diya Gaya Hai, Apni Aulaad Ko Un Cheezon Par Amal Karne Aur Jin Hceezon Se Roka Gaya Hai Unse Bachne Ka Huqm Karo,
Isliye Ki Ye Tumhare Aur Unke Liye Aag Se Bachne Ka Zariya Hai Aur Usme Raaz Yah Hai Ki Jab Baccha Bada Ho, Toh Wah Allah Ke Ahkaam Par Amal Karne Waala Ho Aur Unki Baja'aawri Ka Apne Aapko Aadi Banaaye"
(Tafseer Tibri 28/292)
Matlab Yah Hai Ki Jin Cheezon Se Roka Gaya Hai Unse Bacche Ko Door Rakhne Ki Koshish Ki Jaaye,
Jab Bachpan Hi Se Uska Yah Rujhaan Ban Jaayega Toh Wah Islaam Ke Elaawa Kisi Deen Aur Mazhab Ki Taraf Muta'wajjah Ni Hoga...
IBAADAAT KI ADAAYEGI KA HUQM KARNA:
Isse Agla Marhala Hai, Bacche Ko Ibaadat Ka Aadi Banaana,
Sayyedena Abdullah Bin Amr bin Aas (ra) se Riwayat Hai, Nabi e Akram Sallalaho Alaihi wasallam Ne Farmaya
" apni Aulaad Ko 7 Saal Ka Hone Par Namaz Ka Huqm Karo jab Wah 10 Saal Ke Ho Jaayen Toh Unhe Namaz Na Padhne Par Maaro Aur Unke Bistar Alag Kar do "
(Sunan Abu Dawood 465)
Yahan Roze Ko Bhi Namaz Par Qayaas Kiya Jaayega, Jab Baccha Roza Rakhne Ke Qaabil Ho Jaaye To Use Roza Rakhne Ke Liye Bhi Kaha Jaaye,
Aadat Daalne Ke Liye Use Roze Rakhwaaye Jaayen,
Baap Ke Paas Gunjaish Ho toh Bacche Ko Hajj Bhi Karaaya Jaaye, Isi Tarah Deegar ahKaam Ka Maamla Hai, Isme Hikmat Yahi Hai Ke Baccha Shuru Se Hi Yah Ahkaam Seekh Le.
Aur Na'umri Hi Se Unko Ada Karne Ka Aadi Ban Jaaye,
Isi Tarah Allah Ki Itaat Aur Uska Shukr Ada Karna Seekh Jaaye Aur Uske Har Huqm Par Gardan Jhukaane Ka Aadi Ban Jaaye, Alaawa arzi Use Maalum Ho Jaaye Ki Madad Sirf Allah Hi Se Maagni Hai,
Bharosa Sirf Usi Zaat Par Karna Hai Aur Har Mushkil Ke Waqt Sirf Aur Sirf Usi Ki Taraf Ruju Karna Hai,
KOSHISH KE SAATH ALLAH SE DUA KARNA:
Accha Tarbiyat ke Saath Saath Waalidain Ki Zimmedari Hai Ki wah Apni Aulaad Ke Liye Kasrat Se Dua Kare,
Kyonki Unki Duayon Ne Allah Taala Ne Qubuliyat Ki Taaseer Rakhi Hai,
Sayyedena Hz Abu Hurairah (ra) Se riwayat Hai Ki ; Nabi e Akram Sallalaho Alaihi wasallam Ne Farmaya
" 3 Duaon Ki Qubuliyat Par Koi Shaq Ni, Mazloom Ki Dua, Musaafir Ki Dua, Aulaad ke Liye Waalidain Ki Dua"
(Sunan Ibne Maja 3862)
In Duaaon Me Waalidain Ko Chahiye Ki Sirf Duniya Ko Hi Pesh E Nazar Na Rakhen Balke Duniya Ke Saath Saath Apni Aulaad Ki Aakhirat Ki Bhi Fiqr Karen, Jo Dar'haqeeqat Hamesha Ka Maqaam Hai,
surah Ibraaheem Me Allah Taala Ne Sayyedena Hz Ibraaheem (as) Ki Ye Dua Zikr Ki Hai
" Aiy Mere Rabb ! Mujhe Aur Meri Aulaad Ko Namaz Ka Paband Bana, Aiy Hamare Rabb ! Meri Dua Qubool Farma"
(Surah Ibraaheem 40)
Nabi e Akram Sallalaho Alaihi wasallam Ne Sayyedena Hz Abdullah Bin Abbas (ra) Ke Liye Ye Dua Farmaayi Thi
" aiy Allah Ise Kitaab Ka Ilm Sikha De"
(Sahih Bukhaari 75)
Ek Martaba Fazal Bin Zaid (rh) Ne Ek Dehaati Aurat ke Bacche ko Dekha Aur Bahut Hairaan Hue,
Unhone Us Aurat Se Bacche Ke Baare me Poocha Toh Usne Kaha
Jab Us Bacche Ki Umar 5 Saal Ho Gayi Toh Maine Use Ustaad Ke Hawaale Kar Diya Aur Usne Quraan e Kareem Yaad Kar Liya , Tilaawat Aut Tajweed Seekh Li Phir Use Umda Ashaar Yaad Karaaye Gaye,
Apni Qaum Ke Qaabil E Fakhr Kaarnaamon Ki Taaleem Di Gayi, Uske Aaba Wa Ajdaad Ke Kaarnaame Use Bataaye Gaye,
Jab Yah Bulughat Ki Umar Tak Pahunch Gaya Toh Use Ghodon Par Sawaar Karaya Gaya, Is Tarah Yah Bahtareen Sah'shwaar Ban Gaya,
Phir Hathyaaron Se Lais Hokar Muhalle Ke Gharon Ka Muhaafiz Ban Gaya Aur MadaD Ke Liye Pukaarne Waalon Ki Taraf Mutawajjah Hone Laga,
Matlab Yah Hai Ki Baccha Fitratan Tawheed Aur Allah Par Imaan Ki Haalat Me Paida Hota Hai, Isme Us Waqt Buraayi Ni Hoti,
Uske Baad Ghar Me Acchi Aur Umdah Tarbiyat Aur Mu'aashre Me Acche Nek Saathi Aur Islaami Mahaul Mayassar Aa Jaaye Toh BIla'shubah Yah Baccha Pukhta Iman Waala Ban Jaata Hai,
Nabi e Akram Sallalaho Alaihi wasallam Ka Farmaan Hai
" Har Baccha Fitrat e Saleema Par Paida Hota Hai, Phir Uske Waalidain Use Yahoodi Bana Dete Hain, Ya Esaayi bana Dete Hai Ya Majoosi Bana Dete Hain"
(Sahih Bukhari 1385)
Ab Zara Ghaur Karen , Waalidain Apne Bacchon Ke Ghair Muslimon Ke Schools Aur Missionnary Idaaron Me Taaleem Dilwaate Hain,
Wahan Baccha Esaayi Ustaad Se Taaleem Wa Tarbiyat Haasil Karte Hain,
Wah Wahan Isaaiyat Ke Asraat Qubool Karenge Ya Ni ??
Dusri Taraf Agar Ham Unhe Acche Deeni Idaare Me Taaleem Dilwaayen Jahan Deeni Taaleem Ke Saath Saath Duniyawi Uloom Ki Taaleem Vhi Di Jaati Hai,
Toh Wahan Use Quraan Aur Hadith KA ilm Saath Saath Milega Aur Uski Fitrat Me Islaam Hi Rach Bas Sakega, Na Ki Isaaiyat Aur Majoosiyat....
In sha Allah Next Post Bacchon Me Akhlaaq Wa Kirdaar Ki Islaah Ke Baare Me Hoga.......
To Be Continued
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Sunday, July 7, 2013
AULAAD KI TAALEEM-- AULAAD KE HUQOOQ (PART-2)
.Bismillahirrahmanirraheem
AULAAD KI TAALEEM-- AULAAD KE HUQOOQ (PART-2)
Aulaad Ka Ek Haq Yah Hai Ki Waalidain Unhe Acchi Taaleem Dilaayen,
Aulaad Se Muhabbat Ka Jazba Toh Insaano Ke Saath Saath Haiwaanat Me Bhi Hai,
Gaaye, Bhains, Bakri Aur Jumla Haiwaan Bhi Apne Bachhon Ko Dhoodh Pilaate Hain, Unhe Muhabbat Se Choomte Hain, Unki Judaayi Mahsoos Karte Hain,
Unka Baccha Marr Jaaye Toh Gham Ki Shiddat Se Dhoodh DenA Band Kar Dete Hain,
Unke Bacche Jab Tak Chalne Firne Ke Qaabil Na Ho Jaayen, Unki Dekh Bhaal Me Lage Rahte Hain,
Yah Fitri Jazba Haiwaanaat Aur Insaano Me Mushtarak Hai,
Insaan Ashraful Makhlooqaat Aur Kaaynaat Me Allah Taala Na Naayab hai, Use Bahut Se Faraiz Saunpe Gaye Hain, Unme Aulaad Ki Taaleem Wa Tarbiyat Bhi Shamil Hai,
Hafiz Ibne Qayyim (rh) Ne Baaz Ahle Ilm Se Naqal Kiya Hai Ki
Allah Rabbul Izzat Qayamat Ke Din Aulaad Se Waalidain Ke Mutallik Sawal Karne Se Pahle Waalidain Se Aulaad Ke Mutalliq Sawaal Karega.
Kyonki Jis Tarah Waalidain Ka Aulaad Par Haq Hai Usi Tarah Aulaad Ka Waalidain Par Haq Hai
Hafiz Ibne Qayyin (rh) Mazeed farmate Hain
" Jisne Apni Aulaad Ki Acchi Tarbiyat Karne Me Kotaahi Ki Aur Usko Nazar'andaaz Kar Diya toH Usne Bahut Badi Ghalti Ki.
Kyonki Aulaad Me Aksar Fasaad, Waalidain Ki Taraf Se Hi AatA Hai Aur Agar Unhone Be'parwaahi Se Kaam Liya Aur Deen Ke Faraiz Sunan Ki Taaleem Na Di Toh Aisi Aulaad Na Toh Apne Aapko Fayeda De Sakegi Aur Na Apne Waalidain Ke Liye Khair Ka Zariya Saabit Hogi,
Ek Baap Ne Apne Bete Ko Uski Bad'sulooki Par Daanta Toh Usne Kaha--
Abba Jaan ! Aapne Bachpan Me Haqqe Khidmat Ada Ni Kiya Toh Maine Bade Hokar Aap ki Na'farmani Ki Hai, Aapne Mujhe Bachpan Me Zaaya Kiya Toh Main Aap Ko Budhaape Me Zaaya Kar Raha Hoon "
(Tohfatul Maudood 193)
Sayyidina Hz Anas Bin Malik (ra) Se Riwayat Hai Ki Nabi E Akram Sallalaho Alaihi Wasallam Ne Farmaya
" Ilm Haasil Karna Har Musalman Par Farz Hai"
(Sunan Ibn Maajah 224)
Waalidain Par Farz Hai Ki Wah Khud Bhi Ilm Haasil Karen Aur Apni Aulaad Ko Bhi Ilm Ki Daulat Se Maalamaal Karen,
Maa Ki Goad (Lap) Bacche Ke Liye Pahli Aur BahtareeN Dars'gaah Hai, Haqeeqat Me Insaan Ki Seerat Maa Ki Goad Me Banti Aur Sawarti Hai, Bacche Ka Sabse Zyada Raabta Maa Ke Saath Hota Hai Aur Baccha Maa Aur Uske Mahaul Ka Asar Qubool Karta Hai,
LihaazA Waalidah Hi Bacche Ko Ibtedaayi Taaleem De Taaki Use Deen e Fitrat Yaani Islam Ki Khoobiyon Ka Ilm Ho Aur Uski Zindagi Islam Ke Saanche Me Dhhal Sake,
Uske Elaawa Bacche Ko Scienci Taaleem ki targheeb Bhi Di Jaaye, Kyonki Scienci Uloom Ko Haasil Karne Se Insaan Kaar'khaane Kudrat Me Uske Kawaaneen Se Aagaah Hoga Aur Allah Ke Ahkaam Ke Mutaabik Kaaynnaat Ki Taskheer Ka Fareeza Anjaam De Sakega Aur Is Tarah Haqeeqe Maano Me Zameen Me Khaleefa Hone Ka Khud Ko Haqdaar Thahra Sakega..
Aulaad Ka Aham Haq Hai Akhlaaq Ki Tarbiyat.
Islam Me Sirf Zaati Nijaat Kaafi Ni hai, Islam Ye Zimmedari Har Shakhs ke Supurd Karta Hai Ki Wah Dusron Ke Nijaat Ka Bhi Bando'bast Kare,
Khaandaan Ke Sar'barah Ka Yah Farz Hai Ki Wah Ahlo Ayaal Ki Aisi Tarbiyat Kare Ki Waah Allah Ki Azmat Ke Qaayel Hon, Allah Ke Ahkaam Ko Maane Aur Aakhirat Ki Fiqr Karen,
Dunyawi Khush'hali Ke Elaawa Abdi Zindagi Me Sur'khuru Ka Khyaal Karen, Jaisa Ki Allah Taala Ka Farmaan Hai,
" Aiy Imaan Walon ! Tum Apne Aapko Aur apne Ahl O ayal Ko Us Aag Se Bachaao Jiska Eeindhan (fuel) Insaan Aur Patthar Hain"
(surah Tahreem 6)
Nabi e Akram Sallalo Alaihi Wasallam Ne Farmaya
" Baccha Jab 7 Saal Ka Ho Jaaye Toh Use Namaz Padhne Ka Huqm Do Aur Jab 10 saal Ka Ho Jaaye Aur Namaz Na Padhe Toh Use Maar Kar Namaz Padhao Aur Unhe Alag Alag Sulaaya Karo"
(Sunan Abu dawood 495)
Nabi E Akram Sallalaho Alaihi Wasallam Ke Is Irshad Ke Pesh e Nazar Waalidain Ko Chahiye Ki Wah Apne Bacchon Ko 7 Saal Ki Umar Tak Namaz Aur Akhlaaq Ke Buniyaadi Usool Sikha Den,
Aam Tayr Par Waalidain Ki Tarbiyat Ka Asar Inki Aulaad Me Zaroor Hota Hai,
Misaal Ke Taur Par Nabi E Akram Sallalaho Alaihi Wasallam Ki Saahab'zaadi Sayyida Hz Fatima (ra) Ki Shakhsiyat Se Andaaza Lagaya Ja Sakta Hai Ki Nabi E Akram Sallalaho Alaihi wasallam Ne Inki Kis Qadr Be'misaal Tarbiyat Ki Thi,
Hz Fatima (ra) Sab Aurton Se Badhkar Daana Thin, Aapke Baat Karne Ka Andaz, Husn e Akhlaaq, Waqaar Aur Mataanat Me Nabi e Akram Sallalaho Alaihi wasallam Ka Aks Jhalakta Tha,
Isi Tarah Sayyidina Hz Ali, Hz Hussain Hz Hasan (ra) Bhi Nabi E Akram Sallalaho Alaihi Wasallam Ke Tarbiyat Yaafta They, Unki Zindagiyan Islami Akhlaaq Ki Aaala Namoona thi,
Imaam Ke Baad Dusra Darja Amal e Suwaleh Ka Hai, Quraan Kareem Me Kai Maqamaat Par Yah Alfaaz Aaye Hain
" Beshaq Wah Log Imaan Laaye Aur Unhone Nek Amal Kiye"
Maalun Hua Ki Sahih Islami zindagi Ki Gaadi Un 2 Pahiyon ke Be'ghair Ni Chal Sakti,
Lihaza Waalidain Ko Chahiye Ki Aulaad Me Amal E Swaleh Ka Jazaba Paida Karen Aur Uska Bahtareen Tareeqa yah Hai Ki Waalidain Khud Khuli Kitab Ki Tarah Rahen, Unka Zaahir Aur Baatin Ek Ho, Qaul Aur Fel Me Koi Tazaad Na Ho, Taaki Wah Aulaad Ke Liye Namoona Hon Aur Aulaad Khud Unhe Dekhkar Apni Islaah Karti Rahe,
Ab In sha allah Next Post Me Ham Bacchon Ke Wah Huqooq Tarteeb waar Bayan Karenge Jinka Ada Karna Maa Baap Ke Liye Zaroori Hai...
To BE Continued....
Aulaad Se Muhabbat Ka Jazba Toh Insaano Ke Saath Saath Haiwaanat Me Bhi Hai,
Gaaye, Bhains, Bakri Aur Jumla Haiwaan Bhi Apne Bachhon Ko Dhoodh Pilaate Hain, Unhe Muhabbat Se Choomte Hain, Unki Judaayi Mahsoos Karte Hain,
Unka Baccha Marr Jaaye Toh Gham Ki Shiddat Se Dhoodh DenA Band Kar Dete Hain,
Unke Bacche Jab Tak Chalne Firne Ke Qaabil Na Ho Jaayen, Unki Dekh Bhaal Me Lage Rahte Hain,
Yah Fitri Jazba Haiwaanaat Aur Insaano Me Mushtarak Hai,
Insaan Ashraful Makhlooqaat Aur Kaaynaat Me Allah Taala Na Naayab hai, Use Bahut Se Faraiz Saunpe Gaye Hain, Unme Aulaad Ki Taaleem Wa Tarbiyat Bhi Shamil Hai,
Hafiz Ibne Qayyim (rh) Ne Baaz Ahle Ilm Se Naqal Kiya Hai Ki
Allah Rabbul Izzat Qayamat Ke Din Aulaad Se Waalidain Ke Mutallik Sawal Karne Se Pahle Waalidain Se Aulaad Ke Mutalliq Sawaal Karega.
Kyonki Jis Tarah Waalidain Ka Aulaad Par Haq Hai Usi Tarah Aulaad Ka Waalidain Par Haq Hai
Hafiz Ibne Qayyin (rh) Mazeed farmate Hain
" Jisne Apni Aulaad Ki Acchi Tarbiyat Karne Me Kotaahi Ki Aur Usko Nazar'andaaz Kar Diya toH Usne Bahut Badi Ghalti Ki.
Kyonki Aulaad Me Aksar Fasaad, Waalidain Ki Taraf Se Hi AatA Hai Aur Agar Unhone Be'parwaahi Se Kaam Liya Aur Deen Ke Faraiz Sunan Ki Taaleem Na Di Toh Aisi Aulaad Na Toh Apne Aapko Fayeda De Sakegi Aur Na Apne Waalidain Ke Liye Khair Ka Zariya Saabit Hogi,
Ek Baap Ne Apne Bete Ko Uski Bad'sulooki Par Daanta Toh Usne Kaha--
Abba Jaan ! Aapne Bachpan Me Haqqe Khidmat Ada Ni Kiya Toh Maine Bade Hokar Aap ki Na'farmani Ki Hai, Aapne Mujhe Bachpan Me Zaaya Kiya Toh Main Aap Ko Budhaape Me Zaaya Kar Raha Hoon "
(Tohfatul Maudood 193)
Sayyidina Hz Anas Bin Malik (ra) Se Riwayat Hai Ki Nabi E Akram Sallalaho Alaihi Wasallam Ne Farmaya
" Ilm Haasil Karna Har Musalman Par Farz Hai"
(Sunan Ibn Maajah 224)
Waalidain Par Farz Hai Ki Wah Khud Bhi Ilm Haasil Karen Aur Apni Aulaad Ko Bhi Ilm Ki Daulat Se Maalamaal Karen,
Maa Ki Goad (Lap) Bacche Ke Liye Pahli Aur BahtareeN Dars'gaah Hai, Haqeeqat Me Insaan Ki Seerat Maa Ki Goad Me Banti Aur Sawarti Hai, Bacche Ka Sabse Zyada Raabta Maa Ke Saath Hota Hai Aur Baccha Maa Aur Uske Mahaul Ka Asar Qubool Karta Hai,
LihaazA Waalidah Hi Bacche Ko Ibtedaayi Taaleem De Taaki Use Deen e Fitrat Yaani Islam Ki Khoobiyon Ka Ilm Ho Aur Uski Zindagi Islam Ke Saanche Me Dhhal Sake,
Uske Elaawa Bacche Ko Scienci Taaleem ki targheeb Bhi Di Jaaye, Kyonki Scienci Uloom Ko Haasil Karne Se Insaan Kaar'khaane Kudrat Me Uske Kawaaneen Se Aagaah Hoga Aur Allah Ke Ahkaam Ke Mutaabik Kaaynnaat Ki Taskheer Ka Fareeza Anjaam De Sakega Aur Is Tarah Haqeeqe Maano Me Zameen Me Khaleefa Hone Ka Khud Ko Haqdaar Thahra Sakega..
Aulaad Ka Aham Haq Hai Akhlaaq Ki Tarbiyat.
Islam Me Sirf Zaati Nijaat Kaafi Ni hai, Islam Ye Zimmedari Har Shakhs ke Supurd Karta Hai Ki Wah Dusron Ke Nijaat Ka Bhi Bando'bast Kare,
Khaandaan Ke Sar'barah Ka Yah Farz Hai Ki Wah Ahlo Ayaal Ki Aisi Tarbiyat Kare Ki Waah Allah Ki Azmat Ke Qaayel Hon, Allah Ke Ahkaam Ko Maane Aur Aakhirat Ki Fiqr Karen,
Dunyawi Khush'hali Ke Elaawa Abdi Zindagi Me Sur'khuru Ka Khyaal Karen, Jaisa Ki Allah Taala Ka Farmaan Hai,
" Aiy Imaan Walon ! Tum Apne Aapko Aur apne Ahl O ayal Ko Us Aag Se Bachaao Jiska Eeindhan (fuel) Insaan Aur Patthar Hain"
(surah Tahreem 6)
Nabi e Akram Sallalo Alaihi Wasallam Ne Farmaya
" Baccha Jab 7 Saal Ka Ho Jaaye Toh Use Namaz Padhne Ka Huqm Do Aur Jab 10 saal Ka Ho Jaaye Aur Namaz Na Padhe Toh Use Maar Kar Namaz Padhao Aur Unhe Alag Alag Sulaaya Karo"
(Sunan Abu dawood 495)
Nabi E Akram Sallalaho Alaihi Wasallam Ke Is Irshad Ke Pesh e Nazar Waalidain Ko Chahiye Ki Wah Apne Bacchon Ko 7 Saal Ki Umar Tak Namaz Aur Akhlaaq Ke Buniyaadi Usool Sikha Den,
Aam Tayr Par Waalidain Ki Tarbiyat Ka Asar Inki Aulaad Me Zaroor Hota Hai,
Misaal Ke Taur Par Nabi E Akram Sallalaho Alaihi Wasallam Ki Saahab'zaadi Sayyida Hz Fatima (ra) Ki Shakhsiyat Se Andaaza Lagaya Ja Sakta Hai Ki Nabi E Akram Sallalaho Alaihi wasallam Ne Inki Kis Qadr Be'misaal Tarbiyat Ki Thi,
Hz Fatima (ra) Sab Aurton Se Badhkar Daana Thin, Aapke Baat Karne Ka Andaz, Husn e Akhlaaq, Waqaar Aur Mataanat Me Nabi e Akram Sallalaho Alaihi wasallam Ka Aks Jhalakta Tha,
Isi Tarah Sayyidina Hz Ali, Hz Hussain Hz Hasan (ra) Bhi Nabi E Akram Sallalaho Alaihi Wasallam Ke Tarbiyat Yaafta They, Unki Zindagiyan Islami Akhlaaq Ki Aaala Namoona thi,
Imaam Ke Baad Dusra Darja Amal e Suwaleh Ka Hai, Quraan Kareem Me Kai Maqamaat Par Yah Alfaaz Aaye Hain
" Beshaq Wah Log Imaan Laaye Aur Unhone Nek Amal Kiye"
Maalun Hua Ki Sahih Islami zindagi Ki Gaadi Un 2 Pahiyon ke Be'ghair Ni Chal Sakti,
Lihaza Waalidain Ko Chahiye Ki Aulaad Me Amal E Swaleh Ka Jazaba Paida Karen Aur Uska Bahtareen Tareeqa yah Hai Ki Waalidain Khud Khuli Kitab Ki Tarah Rahen, Unka Zaahir Aur Baatin Ek Ho, Qaul Aur Fel Me Koi Tazaad Na Ho, Taaki Wah Aulaad Ke Liye Namoona Hon Aur Aulaad Khud Unhe Dekhkar Apni Islaah Karti Rahe,
Ab In sha allah Next Post Me Ham Bacchon Ke Wah Huqooq Tarteeb waar Bayan Karenge Jinka Ada Karna Maa Baap Ke Liye Zaroori Hai...
To BE Continued....
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Friday, June 28, 2013
AULAAD KE HUQOOQ--CHHOTON AUR BADON KE HUQOOQ:
Bismillahirrahmanirraheem
CHHOTON AUR BADON KE HUQOOQ:
Jis Tarah Waalidain Ke Aulaad Par Huqooq Hain Usi Tarah Aulaad Ke Kuch Huqooq Waalidain Par Bhi Hain,
Dusre Mazham Me Maa Baap Ke Huqppq Ki Toh Nishaan'dehi Ki Hai Lekin Aulaad Ke Huqooq Ke Maamle me kuch Ni Kaha,
Islam Ko Chunki Har Tabqe Ke Afraad Ki Kaarkardgi Ki Islaah Karna Aur Mu'aashre Me Aitedaal Qaayem Karna Tha, Lihaaza Isme Aulaad Ke Mutaallil Bhi Waalidain Ko Paaband Kiya Gaya Hai,
Iski Buniyaad Sayyedena Hz Anas (ra) Se Marwi Wah Hadith Hai
Jisme Nabi e Akram sallalaho Alaihi wasallam Ne Farmaya "Jo Hamare Chhote Par Shafqat Na Kare Aur Bade Ki Izzat Na Kare Wah Ham Mese Nahin"
(Tirmizi 1919, Musnad Ahmad 2/207)
Nabi e Akram sallalaho Alaihi wasallam Ka Yah Irshaad E Mubarak Chhoton Aur Badon Ke Aapas Ke Huqooq Ki Buniyaad hai,
Is Taaleem Ke Zariye Se Islam Ne Maathat Afsaron, Mulaazimon, Aaqaaon ; Buzurgon, Aur
Azeezon Me Rabt Wa Zabt Ki Shaandar Imaarat Qaayem Ki Hai,
1- ISLAM SE PAHLE WAALIDAIN KI SANG'DILI AUR ISLAM KI TAALEEM:
Islam se Pahle Ahle Arab Apne Ladkiyon Ko Zinda Dafan Kar dete They,
Hindu Bhi Apni Ladkiyon Ko Qatl kar dete they,
Bewaon Ko Khud'kusi Karne par Majboor Kiya Jaata Tha, Usko sati Ki Rasm Kaha Jaata Tha,
Islam Ne Is Tamam rasmon Ko Khatm kar Diya,
Aulaad Ko Maar Daalne Ki Bajaaye Unki Hifaazat Ka Huqm Diya,
Allah Taala Farmata Hai
" Aur Apni Aulaad Ko Tang'dasti" Ki Darr Se Qatal Na Karo, Ham Hi Tumhe Aur Unhe Rizq Dete Hain"
(Surah Anaam 151)
Matlab Yah Hai Ki Waalidain Ka Aulaad Par Pahla Haq Yah Hai Ki Wah Unki Hifaazat karen,
Aur Us Pahle Haq Me Yah Shaamil Hai Ki Maayen Apne Bacche Ko Dhoodh Pilaayen, Kyonki Usi Dhoodh Se Unki Nasho'numa Hogi,
Unke Andar Kuwwat Wa Tawaanaayi Aayegi Aur Yun Unki Hifaazat Hogi,
Maaon Ke Us Haq Ko Allah Taala Ne Yun Bayan Farmaya Hai
" Maayen Apne Aulaad Ko 2 Saal Kaamil Dhoodh Pilaayen Jinka Iraada Dhoodh Pilaane Ki Muddat Poori karne ka Ho Aur Baap Ke Zimme Dastoor Ke Mutabik Un Maaon Ka Roti Kapda Hai "
(Surah Baqarah 266)
Agar Maa Kisi Wajah se Bachhe Ko Dhoodh Nahin Pila Sakti , Toh Islam Ne Yah Ijaazat Di Hai Ki Waalidah Ke Elaawa Dusri Aurat Bacche ko Dhoodh Pila De, Use Razayi Maa Kahte Hain,
Islam Me Razaayi Maa Ka Darja Bhi Kareeban Haqeeqi Maa Ke Baraabar Hai,
Maa Bimari aur Kamzori Ki Soorat Me Apne Bacche Ki Aam Dhoodh Se Bhi Parwarish Kar Sakti Hai, Maqsad Mu'ayyan Muddat Tak Dhoodh Pilaana Hai Taaki Uski Nasho'numa Munaasib taur Par Ho,
Waalid Par Farz Yah Hai Ki Bacche Aur Uski Walidah Ki Kafaalat Kare, Unke Kharch Bardaasht Kare,
Nabi e Akram sallalaho Alaihi wasallam Ne farmaya
"Jo Raham Nahin Karta, Us Par Raham Nahin Kiya Jaayega"
(Sahih BuKhari 5997)
Sayyida Hz Aisha (ra) Bayan Karti Hain Ki
Ek Dehati Nabi e Akram sallalaho Alaihi wasallam Ke Paas Aaya Aur Poocha:-" Kya Aap Bacchon Ko Choomte Hain? Ham Toh Unko Nahin Choomte"
Nabi e Akram sallalaho Alaihi wasallam Ne Farmaya:-" Agar Allah Ne tere Dil Se Rahmat Ko Nikaal Diya Hai Toh Main Tere liye Kya Kar Sakta Hoon"
(Sahin Bukhari- 5998)
Waalidain Par Aulaad Ka Ek Haq Yah Bhi Hai Ki Apni Aulaad Ke Darmiyaan Tafreek Na kare,
Kyonki Nabi e Akram sallalaho Alaihi wasallam Ne Aulaad Ke Darmiyaan Musaawat Qayem Karne ka Huqm Farmaya Hai ,
Jaisa Ki Ek Sahabi Ne Apne Beton Mese Kisi Ko Ek Ghulam Hiba (gift) Kiya, Chaahte they Ki Us Baat Par Nabi e Akram sallalaho Alaihi wasallam Gawaah Hon,
Aap Nabi e Akram sallalaho Alaihi wasallam Ne Unse Poocha :-" Kya Tumne Apne Har Bete Ko Ek Ghulam Hiba Kiya Hai?"
Unhone Arz Kiya:-" Ji Nahin"
Nabi e Akram sallalaho Alaihi wasallam Ne Farmaya :-" Main Aise Zaalimaana Atiye Par Gawah Nahin Banunga "
(Sahih Bukhari -2604, Sahih Muslim- 1623)
Hamare Yahan Baaz Waalidain Yah Karte Hain Ki Kisi Ek Ladke Ke Zer e Asar Hone Ki Wajah Se Ya Unki Khidmat Se Mutaassir Hokar Apni Jaaydad Apni Zindagi Hi Me Uske Naam Kar Dete Hain, Aisa Karna Mu'allime Insaaniyat Nabi e Akram sallalaho Alaihi wasallam Ki Taalimaat Ke Khilaaf Hai,
Ladka Maa Baap Ki Khidmat Karta Hai Toh apna Farz Ada Karta Hai Us Farz Ki Adaauegi Ke Silsile Me Wah Jannat Ka Haqdaar Banta Hai,
Lekin Waalidain Ke Liye Munaasib nahin Ki Adal Wa Insaaf Ka Pahlu Haath Se Jaane Den Aur Kam Khidmat Karne Waale Nalayak Aulaad Ko Jaaydaad Se Mahroom Kar den,
Unki Yah Mahroomi Kya Kam Hai Ki Waalidain Unko Pasand ni Karte,
Aulaad Ka Ek Haq Yah Hai Ki Waalidain Unki Rizq E Halal Se Parwarish Karen,
Maayen Bhi Yah Khyaal Rakhen Ki Ayyam e Hamal Aur Dhoodh Pilaane Ke Dino Me Bacche Ki Parwarish Haram Maal Se Na Ho, Yaani Maa Baap Halal Luqma Hi Khaayen,Warna Baccha Bada Hokar Haram Aur Halal Me Tameez Nahin Kar Sakega,
Iski Misaal Mulaaheza Kijiye,
Sayyidena Hz Abu Hurairah (ra) Bayan Karte Hain Ki
" Sayyidena Hz Hasan (ra) Chhote se They, Unhone Sadqe Ki Ek Khajoor Uthaakar Muh Me Daal Li. Nabi e Akram sallalaho Alaihi wasallam Ne Muh Me Ungali Daalkar Fauran Ugalwaayi Aapne Us waqt Farmaya Ki Sadqa Aal E Muhammad Par Haraam Hai"
(Musnad Ahmad 2/279)
Is Misaal Se Waazeh Hota Hai Ki Aulaad Ke Liye Paak Aur Halal Khuraak Ka Muhayya Karna Bhi Waalidain Ke Zimme Hai,
Waalidain Khud Bhi Halaal LUqma Khaayen , Tab Hi Wah Aulaad Ko Halal Khila Sakenge...
To Be Continued...
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Sunday, March 24, 2013
MAA BAAP EK NEMAT
" SAKE OF ALLAH
PLEAS PLEAS PLEAS PLEAS"
read it
Assalam wa alikum ¤¤¤¤¤¤
(Waqada rabbuka alla
taAAbudooilla iyyahu
wabilwalidayni ihsananimma
yablughanna AAindaka
alkibara ahaduhumaaw
kilahuma fala taqul lahuma offinwala tanharhuma waqul
lahuma qawlan kareema
AUR TUMHARA PARWAR DIGAR NE IRSHAAD FARMAYA HAI K USS K SIWA KISI KI IBADATH NA KARO AUR
MAA,BAAP K SATH BHALAYE KARTE RAHO AGAR UN MEA 1 YA DONO BUDHA PA PAR PAHUCH JAYEN THO UNKO
"UFF" THAK NA KEHNA AUR NA UNEH JHIDAK NA ,AUR UNKA SATH BAATH ADAB SA KARNA"
QURAN17:23)
ajj aksar a deka ja raha hai
hamara bhai behan
MAA, BAAP ki kidmath nahi karte, unki bath nai mante,
unke batho ko jut latha hai
Gharo mea unki na farmani karte hai.....
Dunia mea allah ki ibadath ka baad sab sa bada huq maa baap ka hai
Choti choti bath par apni maa ko dant walo,
apni awaz ko buland karne waloo,
uss ka chehara par khada hokar ghada ki thar ha cheek ne waloo
quran keh thi hai unko "UFF" thak na kaho
unki izath tho karo unsa dua kar waoo
kithne hai bad naseeb jinko maa baap ki dua naseeb nahi hoti....
Duniya ki azeem niyamatho mea sa badi niyamath
"maa baap ki dua hai"
un k liya apne juban ko naram karo,
unke sath apna rishtha jodo
gharo mea MAA, BAAP Allah ki rahamath hai
maap baap ki kidamath ,
unki shaan puchni hai tho unsa puchoo
jo ajj
unke MAA BAAP nahi hai
:(
tharass the hai o log
KASH ham apni MAA ki shakal ko dek sakthe.
Ham apne baap k shakal ko dek sakthe....
Tharas the hai apne baba ka nam latha hua
unsa pucho jin k saro par MAA , BAAP saya nahi hai
Unsa pucho MAA,BAAP ki
kimath kithni hoti hai:-( :-(
MAA BAAP ki mauzoodgi ko allah ki rahamath samjo
uss ko ganimath samjoo
ALLAH KI KASAM KAHA KARKEH THA HU DUNIYA KI HAR CHEEZ INSAN KO MIL SAK THI HAI
MAA, BAAP KI NIYAMATH GUZAR JANE K BAAD DUBAR NAI MIL SAKTHI...
Allah ham sab unki kidmath karne ki hidayath da
ameen
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